• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Skip to footer

FairMormon

Subscribe To Our Newsletter

Come, Follow Me Resources

  • Find Answers
  • Blog
  • Media & Apps
  • Conference
  • Bookstore
  • Archive
  • About
  • Get Involved
  • Search

Is failure acceptable in what we do?

March 25, 2009 by Justin Hansen

I have been giving a lot of thought to success and failure as of late. I have recently taken a national exam to become a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I have yet to receive the results, but should in the next day or two. With that said, I have been preparing myself to either celebrate like crazy, or figure out how to pick myself up and get back on the horse. I have been doing a lot of thinking about my family, and how much they mean to me. They have been a huge support in this whole process, an I know they will continue to stand by me. Then I watched a video blog by Glenn Beck (don’t worry, no politics will seep in here). He gave a list of successful men who had at one time failed in their lives’. I’d like to name just a few here: Milton Hershey, Henry Ford, Walt Disney. I thought of others: Billy Joel, Harlin Sanders of KFC fame, Phil Knight of Nike, Glenn Beck himself, and the list goes on. There have been church leaders try and fail in ways to follow The Lord.  Joseph Smith learned a valuable lesson after losing the 116 pages, when he failed to listen the first time to The Lord. There have been times in my life I did not heed the whisperings of the Spirit and was worse off because of it. We try and fail every day in what we do. As the cliche goes, everybody makes mistakes. Christ is the only one in my memory who never failed in doing what he was asked to do. He executed with perfection, the commandments given him by our Father.

    Now, what does this have to do with Apologetics and defending the Church? I was thinking about times in my life and about experiences from others where they may have felt inadequate to speak up, or else feel they did not accurately answer a question posed to them by a critic, or even a friend. We receive a lot of questions on the FAIR list from Bishops, Ward Mission Leaders, Missionaries, and others seeking answers to questions. One thing to keep in mind, there is always some answer to the question. Another thing to tag onto that last statement is: The answer can be “I don’t know.” There is nothing wrong with this at times. It gives us a chance to learn, explore, research and grow in our knowledge. We can then go in search of an answer to the critic or sincere question. Even if we do put forth an effort to find an answer, there may not be one out in the open. Critics have scoffed at us when we are asked to “shelf” an answer. I will say that there are answers to many questions, there are times in life where “shelving” a question or concern is perfectly OK. If we are not in tune with the promptings of the Spirit when searching for answers, we could bring more problems to our situation than good. It is OK to fail in finding answers right away, it may take years to find the answer, and if we never do, it is alright. We must remember that the core questions of the truth are there, and we must keep faith in them. The rest is gravy to go along with the core building blocks of our faith (Christ Lives, Joseph Smith is and was a prophet, Book of Mormon is true, God speaks to a prophet today). Those are the things I consider vital, I may be missing some, but you get the idea. Failure to answer a critic’s attack or the perceived inability to answer a sneer about what we believe is not the end all. Fair, The Maxwell institute, and others give us great material to work with, and it is there to be utilized in defending truth. We can use these things to succeed where we may have failed before. Combine these resources with those the Church gives and the things that come to us through the Holy Ghost, and we have before us a strong arsenal

 Failure in anything can be seen as a stepping stone for success. This is the same with Apologetics and answering the questions that can and will come to us from others, and even from ourselves. Stay close to the core, eternal truths of the gospel, and with that will come the answers, or else the peace the gospel brings. For those of you seeking answers, I wish you the best, and may you be blessed in your search. For those of you giving answers and who are engaged in the fight for truth, keep your head up, eyes open, your knees worn from prayer, and remember, failure is acceptable in life, as it often serves to make us stronger and more determined in our journey.

 

**Comments posted here represent my own views, not the views of FAIR, The Church of Jesus Christ, or others who participate on this blog.

Filed Under: Uncategorized

Reader Interactions

Comments

  1. cinepro says

    March 25, 2009 at 11:38 am

    Ummm…”The Lord Joseph Smith”?

  2. P. K. Andersen says

    March 25, 2009 at 12:24 pm

    Wow! You think Joseph Smith is the Lord?

  3. P. K. Andersen says

    March 25, 2009 at 12:38 pm

    My last post was intended for cinepro, not Justin Hansen.

  4. Justin Hansen says

    March 25, 2009 at 12:39 pm

    Typo fixed, what a missing period can do!

  5. Cowboy says

    March 25, 2009 at 12:42 pm

    In the first paragraph Justin states:

    “There have been church leaders try and fail in ways to follow The Lord. Joseph Smith learned a valuable lesson after losing the 116 pages, when he failed to listen the first time to The Lord.” (copied/pasted)

    You will notice a period separating “The Lord” and “Joseph Smith”.

  6. P. K. Andersen says

    March 25, 2009 at 12:42 pm

    A typo? Never mind.

  7. Cowboy says

    March 25, 2009 at 12:43 pm

    Apparently Justin fixed an error while I was typing a response. Miscommunication abounds.

  8. P. K. Andersen says

    March 25, 2009 at 12:51 pm

    To answer your question: Our failures are never acceptable; but some are inevitable.

  9. Justin Hansen says

    March 25, 2009 at 12:59 pm

    I believe our failures can be acceptable, expected, as well as inevitable. We will fail, if we try to improve ourselves because of them, and even if we venture out to do something, and fall short in the attempt, I see that as acceptable. I could be off base, but why would certian failure not be acceptable?

  10. HeidiAnn says

    March 25, 2009 at 2:28 pm

    Great post (great talk on Sunday too)! And congrats on passing your test! I’m sure Jonathan will be asking you for some pointers.

  11. poulsenll says

    March 25, 2009 at 6:14 pm

    It is not how many times we fall that matters but how many times we get up. We may not always succed in what we try but as long as we get up afterwards and learn from our failure that is what makes us grow. Quite often what we learn is simply not to try that particular thing again. If qwe learn then failure is acceptable because it has taught us something that will make a differnce in future efforts to succeed.

    Also congrats on passing your exam.

    Larry P

  12. Larry says

    March 25, 2009 at 6:59 pm

    SPOT ON!!

  13. Ray Agostini says

    March 26, 2009 at 7:54 pm

    Fair, The Maxwell institute, and others give us great material to work with, and it is there to be utilized in defending truth. We can use these things to succeed where we may have failed before. Combine these resources with those the Church gives and the things that come to us through the Holy Ghost, and we have before us a strong arsenal

    As much as I admire Dan Peterson, and even Dr. Midgley, I don’t think this is a particularly “strong arsenal”.

    A Mormon who actually lives his/her religion in thought, word and deed, is the strongest arsenal you have.

  14. Justin Hansen says

    March 27, 2009 at 5:46 am

    Ray says: A Mormon who actually lives his/her religion in thought, word and deed, is the strongest arsenal you have.

    Justin Says: I agree completely, my context, though,was talking about answering hard questions. Living by good example is always the best way to go, but I’m making the point that looking for answers can be hard, and these things are good ways or part of an “arsenal” to answer the questions that can seem difficult.

  15. Seth R. says

    March 27, 2009 at 10:52 am

    Our failures are never acceptable.

    But that does not mean our efforts were not acceptable.

Primary Sidebar

Subscribe to Blog

Enter your email address:

Delivered by FeedBurner


RSS-Icon RSS Feed (all posts)

Subscribe to Podcast

Podcast icon
Subscribe to podcast in iTunes
Subscribe to podcast elsewhere
Listen with FairMormon app
Android app on Google Play

Pages

  • Blog Guidelines

FairMormon Latest

  • Come Follow Me Week Three: The Turning of Hearts
  • Joseph Smith’s First Vision
  • Willing to Be Weak
  • FairMormon Finances
  • FAIR Voice Podcast #25: Interview with Blake Ostler

Blog Categories

Recent Comments

  • Neal Smith on FAIR Voice Podcast #25: Interview with Blake Ostler
  • Debbi Rollo on Joseph Smith’s First Vision
  • Glenn Thigpen on Willing to Be Weak
  • Rob Peters on Joseph Smith’s First Vision
  • Wendy Ulrich on Willing to Be Weak

Archives

Footer

FairMormon Logo

FairMormon is a non-profit organization dedicated to providing well-documented answers to criticisms of the doctrine, practice, and history of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Our Friends

  • Book of Mormon Central
  • BYU Religious Studies Center
  • BYU Studies
  • Interpreter Foundation
  • LDS Perspectives Podcast
  • Pearl of Great Price Central

Follow Us

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • iTunes
  • YouTube

Donate to FairMormon

We are a volunteer organization. We invite you to give back.

Donate Now

Donate to us by shopping at Amazon at no extra cost to you. Learn how →

Site Footer

Copyright © 1997-2021 by The Foundation for Apologetic Information and Research, Inc. All Rights Reserved.

No portion of this site may be reproduced without the express written consent of The Foundation for Apologetic Information and Research, Inc.

Any opinions expressed, implied, or included in or with the goods and services offered by FairMormon are solely those of FairMormon and not those of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Foundation for Apologetic Information and Research (FAIR) Logo

FairMormon™ is controlled and operated by the Foundation for Apologetic Information and Research (FAIR)